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I actually didn’t like Paris for a long time… The Illusion & Magic of the Paris Dream

August 23, 2019 · In: Interior design


Paris Dream Apartment | House of Valentina

I actually didn’t like Paris for a long time. I know. You gasped and grabbed your heart when I said that. It’s such a shocking statement that no one should dare utter it. Which is somewhat ironic given the number of people who have whispered that very thing to me, almost in shame. We are suppose to ALWAYS HAVE PARIS!


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I went to Paris to celebrate my 30th birthday. We stayed in the nastiest place in an area where no one was speaking French and we later learned was one of the areas where the police wouldn’t even go. (I’m not exaggerating.) We genuinely felt scared and thought about busting out the credit card and booking a different place, but at the time we were poor. We were living in Morocco and just getting to Paris had taken up just about every cent we had.

As if that was not enough, it poured on my birthday. Sheets of cold, pelting rain that made everyone cranky as we squished through the city with soaking wet feet. We had taken a recommendation from a friend on where the best flea market was and ended up in a sketchy market that was selling blinking souvenirs and cheap t-shirts.

We ate lunch that day, not in the beautiful cafe of my Parisian dreams, but in a stuffy KFC. The five of us huddled around a corner table meant for two like bandits guarding the only dry spot in the city while we got shoved and pushed by the crowds that had shared the same train of thought as we did when the rain made walking outside unbearable.


Our dreams are resilient...

I felt like Paris had chewed us up and spit us out. It was an unbearable burden to be this mad at a city I was suppose to love, but after I while I learned to laugh at myself. I think maybe I did find a little bit of myself in Paris that day. I realized that even my greatest dreams and fantasies could be shattered and I would keep getting right back up, adjusting the ones I had and making new ones. Our dreams are a lot more resilient than we think they are.

Five years later we booked a stay at one of my favorite places I had ever stayed and, even with a sick kid, managed to find that Parisian magic that fed my soul and renewed my hope for this lovely city.

I was reminded of all this as I was pining over these images on Jackie Kai Ellis’ instagram. Her book, The Measure of My Powers, immediately went into my Amazon cart, not because she promised the perfect little trip to Paris, but because she had learned to live, to celebrate, and be thankful. That was something I wanted to read more about!


Paris Dream Apartment | House of Valentina


Paris Dream Apartment | House of Valentina


Paris Dream Apartment | House of Valentina


Paris Dream Apartment | House of Valentina


Paris Dream Apartment | House of Valentina


Paris Dream Apartment | House of Valentina


Paris Dream Apartment | House of Valentina


Paris Dream Apartment | House of Valentina


Paris Dream Apartment | House of Valentina


Paris Dream Apartment | House of Valentina


Vintage Coral $12+

Vintage Coral $12+


French Mirror $389

French Mirror $389


Vintage Spoons $12+

Vintage Spoons $12+


Vintage Silver $18+

Vintage Silver $18+


Cane Chair $359

Cane Chair $359


Velvet Sofa $1359

Velvet Sofa $1359


Burning Rose $43

Burning Rose $43


Black Clawfoot $759

Black Clawfoot $759


Lace Curtain $64

Lace Curtain $64


Brass Shower $759

Brass Shower $759


Silver Cup/Vase

Silver Cup/Vase


Vintage Basket $28

Vintage Basket $28

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  1. [email protected] says

    October 24, 2019 at 10:46 am

    Sounds like you got a lot of bad advice on your first visit,happy that you went back it’s a marvelous city

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    • [email protected] says

      October 25, 2019 at 5:58 pm

      It really is and so true about bad advice!

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  2. [email protected] says

    October 24, 2019 at 10:46 am

    Sounds like you got a lot of bad advice on your first visit,happy that you went back it’s a marvelous city

    Reply
    • [email protected] says

      October 25, 2019 at 5:58 pm

      It really is and so true about bad advice!

      Reply
  3. [email protected] says

    July 30, 2021 at 3:23 am

    I think that the mistake a lot of people do is to forget that as magnificent as some cities are they are well cities. Every city has its let’s call it unromantic corners. Its juts about not giving up on them and letting them show your their gems. Its always worth to give a city a second chance- you never know how it might surprise you

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  4. [email protected] says

    July 30, 2021 at 3:23 am

    I think that the mistake a lot of people do is to forget that as magnificent as some cities are they are well cities. Every city has its let’s call it unromantic corners. Its juts about not giving up on them and letting them show your their gems. Its always worth to give a city a second chance- you never know how it might surprise you

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